if the love fits, wear it

if the love fits, wear it baby
and if it feels good, put it on
and if it's not right then, just maybe
you'd be better off to leave it alone...



early this morning, it just popped out.  i remember humming this song when i was younger.  no idea what message was conveyed.  it's just that the melody was nice, it was soothing.  

just trying to reflect on the central idea.  i think this is telling everyone that love is like a trial and error thing.  if you feel love for someone, then push through with it.  for guys, pursue the ladies, for ladies being pursued, say you love them without any further ado.  if it's meant to be, good for you.  if it's not, then bade each other good bye without hatred or any bitterness.  

well, some would say, easier said than done.  but it's really like that.  no matter how we try to work things out,, when it's not what is destined to happen, it's not gonna work out.  it's a matter of being practical.  at least, you will have no regrets at the end.  no more what ifs... what if i told him i love him, what if i pursued her, what if i did this, what if i did that... and no wasting of time, effort, and emotions.  why remain in a relationship that is not making the both of you happy.  there's no sense in keeping each other to something that is no longer healthy for both parties.  

take your side. mine is just an opinion, (which i happen to have applied when i was younger) and made me happiest...

if you don't agree, it's alright.  listen to the song,,, and enjoy... stay in love, that's the best thing in life.